Most people think sex appeal is something you either have naturally, or you don’t have at all. And while, it’s true that some people are born with a natural Ummff, that doesn’t mean you can’t learn a few things that will up your sex appeal ante. Here are the top 4 tips to achieving sex appeal.
#1 It’s in the eyes!
Creepily staring at a girl is not sexy, but holding eye contact while you’re talking to her is hot. If you look at her like you are interested, you want to get to know who she is, and what she wants… that will create an aura between the two of you. That aura will augment whatever chemistry is present.
#2 Be Appropriately Physical
Touch is touchy. In other words, you don’t want to overdo it, but you do want to let her know that you are physically “available” and that you know how to make her feel like a woman. No, don’t do the corny placing your palm over her hand, that’s for consoling people. Touch her arm, lightly put your hand on her back, you catch the drift.
#3 Mystery Man
Telling too much about oneself, too fast, is not hot. With that in mind, try to maintain an air of mystery. Keep her coming back for more, curious to learn more about you. We’re not saying be secretive, we’re saying, be mysterious in a good way.
#4 Pace Yourself
When engaging a woman in conversation, watch your pace. Fast-talking is for hustlers. You want to talk like a romancer. Slow it down, take your time, to let her know you’re not in a rush. Let your voice and energy settle into a deeper place… you’ll sound like a man that’s got things under control and that’s sexy.