From the outside looking in, it can be hard to figure out what a woman wants from a man. Does she want a bad boy, the sweet nerd, the ambitious, go-getter dude? The reality is, there is no easy answer. Depending on where a woman is in her life, she’ll want different things, regardless of whether want she wants is actually what she needs. So instead of trying your luck at any girl that catches your eye, learn to spot a girl that is in the right place in life to accept you for who you are.

If you are a

Sweet Nerd (think Michael Cera)

Look for a girl that isn’t too high maintenance. I know the Kardashians do it for you, but they’re not the type. You need a girl who has a little bit of quirk to her, maybe even a little sad side. (Think Juno).  You’ll know her when you see her. She doesn’t make a huge entrance, but has a twinkle in here eye, a sweet smile and is really smart – which is good because she’ll be able to keep up with you in the conversation department.

Man’s Man (think Mark Wahlerg or Josh Brolin)

You need a lady – the type of woman who knows how to pull herself together for a night out.  She knows how to make you feel like a man, because she admires your strength and is strong enough to keep you on your toes. She’ll have a career going, but also takes pride in cooking and keeping a lovely home.  For the love of geranium – leave the super young bimbos alone. They might float your boat, but will only annoy you at the end of the day.

Bad Boy  (think… Joaquin Pheonix before the crazies settled in)

If you’re really a dude that doesn’t like to play by the rules, can’t stick to one chick, moves to a new state every 6 months and has a relationship with 1 or more police departments- what can we say? Find a girl that is as “bad” as you. Sure, she’ll be bat-shit crazy, but she’ll understand your lifestyle.  Plus, she’s the only one likely to follow you across country for S’s and G’s. a.k.a (shits and giggles). I know you’re attracted to the sweet Jennifer Anistons of the world… but you’ll only break their hearts.

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