There is an art to pleasing a woman.
We get it, women are hard to understand. However, relating to a women’s deepest desires both mentally and physically is the best way to ensure a satisfying relationship for both of you. Whether you are getting to know your new lady friend or you’ve been in a casual relationship, that’s getting serious, if sexual intimacy is on your agenda, we have a few helpful tips for you.
Any sexual experience is a big deal especially for her. If becoming a good sexual partner with your special lady is the next step in your relationship, the best advice you will ever read is this: the little things matter with most women. It’s been said, “great lovers are made, not born!” Some things come naturally, but anything you want to master takes time and practice. For a healthy sexual experience, think timing, position, and pleasure. We call it our “TPP” tips for a great sex life. Master these tips and you are on your way to a happy and fulfilling experience.
Don’t rush! Whether it’s your first, second, or third time being intimate, timing and exercising a bit of control will increase your chances of having the best sex ever. Of course, we are talking about during and before sex. Finding the right time to be intimate sets the mood for the future. Moving slowly once you two finally “bond” also makes the experience more memorable. Taking your time will show that you respect her and it also gives her a sense of security that the thing you two are flirting with is more than just a fling. Set the mood including wining, dining, gifts from Vicky’s (that’s Victoria Secrets for those that don’t know) and communicate. A great talk and unforgettable foreplay will take your relationship a long way.
Every relationship is different. If your relationship isn’t ready for sexual intimacy, waiting to have sex may be best. If you find that timing is right and you have taken the leap, during foreplay take the time to explore each other’s bodies. Pay special attention to her most sensitive areas. Discover sexual positions you both enjoy, but more importantly, one she finds fun. Try your best to please her. There is not a perfect position; however, the more she enjoys sex (and the position), the more enjoyable it will be for you.
Don’t assume what she likes or dislikes. Understand everyone is different and the way she may interpret her experience with you could differ from the reaction you are familiar with. To make sure you both have a pleasurable experience, be attentive to her needs and aware of the things she does to turn you on. Be sensitive about everything including what you say and do. Compliment her. Tell her what you love about her and her body.
Ultimately, your actions will set the tone and her mood. Be sensual with your kissing. Ask her what position she wants to be in. If sex toys are your thing, talk to her about bringing them into the bedroom. Make sure she is open and responsive to new things before you do something that makes her feel self-conscious. Kiss her sensually, build desire with a lot of foreplay, and respect her choices. And don’t forget to practice safe sex.